Take The Assessment — Goddess Vora

Step 1 of 5 — About You

Tell Us About You

This is your private space. There are no wrong answers — only honest ones.

Your First Name

Your Relationship — Check all that apply

✓ We've lost some of the spark and become more distant ✓ We feel more like roommates ✓ We just don't feel connected like we used to be ✓ He doesn't seem to have interest in me or what I'm doing ✓ When we do have sex, the intimacy isn't there like it used to be ✓ Sex feels more like a chore than a great time ✓ We've lost the spontaneity, excitement and joy in many parts of our relationship

Biggest Challenges or Frustrations Right Now — Check all that apply

✓ I don't know what to say or do to spark his desire ✓ When I try to talk about our relationship, it usually doesn't go well ✓ Hugging or kissing can feel awkward or transactional — not joyful or meaningful ✓ He watches TV and tunes me out ✓ He barely responds to my texts ✓ His desire for sex is a fraction of years past ✓ Other:

Any other comments about your relationship that are important for us to understand?

Step 2 of 5 — Be Honest, This Stays Between Us

Your Comfort Zone

No wrong answers here — just honesty. For each one, tell us where you stand: things you're already comfortable with, things you'd be open to trying, and things that are a hard no for you. This keeps everything we recommend inside a zone that feels good to you.

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Step 3 of 5 — Your Best Honest Guess

His Comfort Zone — Your Best Guess

Now do the same for him — based on what you genuinely believe he'd enjoy, be open to, or wants no part of. You may not be 100% certain on every one, and that's completely fine. Your best honest guess gets your plan far closer than not asking at all — and you can always adjust later as you learn more.

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Step 4 of 5 — What You'd Actually Say

Your Soundbite Comfort Level

Now the words themselves. For each line below, select how comfortable you'd feel saying it to your partner. We'll start gentle and only show you spicier lines once you're ready for them.

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